I appreciate the time you invested in your response. Our society is Responsible for our trauma. And they could easily end it if they chose. The fact that they haven’t gotten to it, and don’t care to — doesn’t mean trans women need to heap even more shame upon themselves. And it certainly doesn’t make them a threat. And I posited that if They would simply (and with perfectly reasonable decorum) avert their eyes and stop staring at someone else’s genitals, perhaps they could avoid their own self-imposed trauma. I’m not unaware, I’m exhausted.